Dedicated to girls and boys :

1. Not every girl wants to get married by 23. So before you ASSUME she's of marriageable age, ask her what her views on marriage are. One hint, might save you the drama- just because she does not want to get married now does not mean she never will. She has other plans for herself right now, let her live a little.

2. Just because a girl wishes to do her PhD after Masters does not mean she doesn't want to settle down in life. Give her a break, and respect the fact that she has the confidence to take that up, cos yeah, PhD is no joke. There will come a point when she would happily devote herself to her family, and balance it out with her work life. Her degrees, or lack of them, won't make any difference. Let her study while she wants to, okay?

3. Just because she is 27 and unmarried does not mean she's been rejected by many men. Maybe, being single is a choice she has made.

4. Having a boyfriend does not make her characterless.

5. Just because she has recently gone through a break up doesn't mean she is vulnerable and available.

6. Just because most of her friends are boys, does not mean she is "having a good time" with all of them.

7. Just because she has a drink in her hand does not mean she is an alcoholic.

8. Just because she wore a short skirt to one party does not mean she dresses up that way every day.

9. Just because she is ambitious doesn't mean she isn't a family person.

10. Just because she doesn't discuss her plans doesn't mean she's clueless about life. Give her a chance, alright?

11. Just because she is outspoken doesn't mean she is a rebel.

12. Just because she comes home late from work does not mean she is sleeping around with her colleagues.

13. After a hectic week, give her some time to relax over the weekend. Don't make that one weekend party make her look like a she's a frivolous party-girl without a job.

14. Just because she is out shopping alone does not mean she is depressed or lonely. It's how she relaxes, respect that.

15. Just because she is on a holiday alone does not mean she doesn't have company. Maybe it's a break to get back her lost confidence, or maybe that's how she is. Admire her spirit instead of giving her advice, okay?

16. Just because she is a woman doesn't mean she can't kick ass in military school.

17. Just because she has a tattoo doesn't mean she is attention seeking. Maybe that's her way of expression.

18. Just because she doesn't know how to cook doesn't mean she won't make a good wife. Remember when you were just married and cooked chicken curry which was um, a disaster?

19. Just because she likes everything pink and shiny and fluffy doesn't mean she lives in her own world. She can handle some situations much better than her male counterparts.

20. Just because she is pretty does not mean she is a whore. And just because she is friendly does not mean she is flirting with you.

Yes, we cry, we are emotional; we take things personally, and sometimes over-react to situations. But this does not give any one the right to judge us in the wrong way. Times are changing; don't confine her within those boundaries, no matter how orthodox you are. There are some who might be fighting this losing battle, yet compromising on their decisions and plans, just to please society. Respect n do share... :))

I afraid if I fall so hard then I gonna broken.

Ramai sangat tanya apa aktiviti aku sekarang. Dah jarang campur dalam group whatsapp, twitter insta and facebook pun dah lama tak cara. Dah lama kan tak baca caption hambar aku di Instagram since semua gambar pun dah didelete. Well, I'm doing fine and I'm good with my life. Nampak tak life aku memang interesting kan since ramai tertanya-tanya. KAHKAHKAHKAH.

Aktiviti aku masih sama macam dulu :

Masih seorang pelajar yang masih lambat ke kelas.

Masih seorang pendengar yang baik tapi gila.

Masih seorang sahabat yang hambar.

Masih seorang anak yang independent.

Masih seorang businesswoman amatur.

Masih seorang askar yang tak akan pernah kosai.

Masih seorang hamba Allah yang sentiasa hina.

Masih seorang pencinta yang tak pernah ada perasaan.

Masih seorang food hunter yang berjaya since aku dah gemuk.

Paling banyak pertanyaan mengenai military life and love story aku. Basically aku masih Fieshah yang sama macam dulu cuma mental kekadang up kekadang down. Askar perlu ke kosai?

Bercakap pasal mental koyak ke carik prap prap ke, bagi aku tak perlu pun nak ada boyfriend ke sugar daddy ke nak jadi moral up. Aku tahu benda itu dah jadi lumrah tapi aku tak nampak pun moral up disitu. Moral terpesong adalah. Cara aku, sebelum mula training tu mmg call parents minta diorang doakan aku kuat. After training pun sama. Benda yang moral up aku sebenarnya duit je. HAHAHAHAHA. Kau pikir duit, kau layan je okay. Jenis aku, aku takkan buat sesuuatu yang tak menguntngkan aku.

Next love story, apemendalah. Tanyalah benda lain kan. HAHAHAHAHA aku nie bukan jiwang pun. The last teen of 1 tu zaman nak berlovey dovey nie dah berakhir dah. Memori 5 tahun bukan petik jari dah hilang ye tapi kau sadokan hati je okay ladies? Sayang diri kau. Lain orang lain cara nak lupakan orang. Aku pilih untuk buat bisnes online so technically aku mmg busy, tak sempat pun nak msg orang. Not find another man. Orang tak suka kau tu mampus je diorang. Kalau korang tolong cuci buntot diorang pun bukan diorang suka kau pun. Faham tak faham?

Haters gonna hate sampai mampus

xoxo, Pegawai Kadet Wanita Pishadia.